Solé Christopher-Blake

It’s a strange feeling—realizing you’ve been living a life that doesn’t quite fit.

You’ve followed the rules. You’ve done the things you were “supposed” to do. And yet, there’s a quiet ache. A restlessness. A sense that something’s off, even if you can’t explain why.

The Whisper That Started It All

It didn’t happen in a church.
It didn’t happen during prayer.
It didn’t come through a powerful dream or deep meditation. It came while I was slicing a watermelon. Nothing about the moment seemed spiritual. No candles. No incense. No sacred music playing in the background. Just me, in my kitchen, doing something ordinary. But somewhere between the weight of the knife and the sweetness of the fruit, something shifted. Something opened. A quiet thought made its way in—one I hadn’t invited or expected. It wasn’t from a book. It wasn’t something I heard in a sermon. It came from within. And that whisper changed everything.

You’ve done the vision boards.
You’ve written in the journal.
You’ve said the affirmations.
You’ve even lived in gratitude for a life that’s already soft, sacred, and self-directed. And yet… the money hasn’t caught up.

You’ve done the work.
The journaling. The vision boards. The affirmations. You’ve listened to the podcasts, rewritten the limiting beliefs, set the intentions, and said the prayers.

And yet… something still feels stuck.
You’re still in survival mode — barely getting by, watching the breakthroughs pass other people’s way while wondering when it’ll finally be your turn.

Before you assume it’s a mindset issue, take a moment to look somewhere else.
Somewhere unexpected. Somewhere most people never think to look:

It’s easy to get lost in the scroll. To click video after video promising the next big secret. To listen to people tell stories of instant success, where money floods in after one mindset shift, where love appears after one visualization, where health is restored by repeating a single affirmation. And in those moments, you wonder what you’re missing. You wonder if maybe your thoughts just aren’t “high vibe” enough. Or maybe you’re blocking your blessings. Or maybe you just haven’t figured out the technique yet.

We hear it all the time:

“I’m just in a season right now.”
“That season of my life is over.”
“People come into your life for a reason or a season.”

But have you ever stopped to really ask yourself:
What do I actually mean when I talk about the seasons of my life?

Is it just a way to label a hard moment or explain a transition?
Or is there something deeper happening — a rhythm I’m living in without even realizing it?